The following post is taken up from a fellow blogger (here)
and absolutely loved it...as it has all the elements that I would write about myself!!
J
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Unlike reading and writing,
observing is not a hobby. It’s a natural ability, a part and parcel of someone’s
basic instincts...Observation, in philosophical terms, is not at all similar to
introspection or retrospection... It is a timeless and dynamic process of
continuous learning, which always helps one to live in the present...A real observer,
beholds things that others cannot even notice, perceives things that others
cannot even imagine...and, therefore, observers among both men and women are
rare...
Why should a girl Date a guy who observes!!!
Date a guy who not
only tells you how beautiful you are, but tells you what exactly what makes you
beautiful... Yes, he would notice something new about your everyday...He would
tell you about things that distinguish you from all other girls around you,
things about you that you might have never noticed yourself!
He would love you for who you are and not for how you look!
Right from your simplicity to your confidence, right from your intelligence to
your madness, he would admire everything about you...Right from your weird
traits to your idiotic mood swings, he would not only observe it all, but also
understand you, understand things about you that no one else does.
He observes, he listens, he learns, he explores, he
visualizes, and he wants to know more! These make him a sensible person and being sensible is not same as being intelligent. He would notice the pain in your eyes when the whole
world believes that your fake smile means that you're happy..Share your
problems with him, speak your heart out, he would listen with an incredible
patience, and always come up with a solution.
Never lie to him, because you simply cannot afford to do that!
But the best way to irritate him is to pretend that you're hiding something..
No matter how sensible or how intelligent he is, curiosity is his biggest
weakness! Tell him that someone else knows you better than what he does, tell
him that there is a secret that you cannot share with him, and he would go
crazy out of curiosity, out of envy..Yes, he envies all those guys (and even
girls) who know things about you that he does not, who talk to you more than
what he does..Try to play pranks with him and he would pretend that he knows
nothing, while he knows everything.. Yes, observers actually pretend their
ignorance just to see that smile on your face, and this is, perhaps, the cutest
thing about them!
Date a guy who observes because he flirts in a really unique
style! He won't ever use the cliched filmy dialogues and fake promises to
impress you..But if you look at yourself through his eyes, you would be
flattered, for whatever he says, he says out of his own observations, and
therefore, he means it!
He won't write typical romantic poems on your birthday, but
he would write long notes that exclusively talk about you and every small thing
about you that he finds funny, that he finds cute, that he finds awesome! His
sense of humor is also an outcome of his brilliant observation skills and wits,
he would make you laugh, he would come up with cute nicknames almost daily.
He does not believe in fairy tale romance, but he happens to
be a romantic guy..His style of romance is, however, really different..Get
naughty with him and he would get naughtier, act like a kid and he would pamper
you.. Irrespective of your mood, he would always get to know what you want, for
observation is timeless, and he always has the urge to know you, to know what
you feel and what you desire.
He loves surprises.. He likes intelligent girls.. He loves
intellectual conversations..His behavior might seem to be idiosyncratic at
times, but you would start enjoying his idiotic side as well.. Listen to him,
talk about anything and everything under the sun, share your views about things
that interest him.. He would easily forgive you even if you are at your worst,
but you should never doubt him! He expects you to have faith in him and nothing
would hurt him more than seeing doubt in your eyes.. There is no place for
over-possessiveness, suspicions and insecurities in your life for you are
dating an observer, for you are blessed to have him and he deserves to be trusted!
Date a guy who observes because you deserve it! You deserve
someone who knows you and understands you well..You deserve someone who loves
you the way you are..You deserve someone who means what he says.. You deserve a
guy who knows the worst of the things about you, but genuinely admires you, and
above all, date a guy who observes because, "Love is, when someone
gradually takes you to who you are, rather than what he wants you to be"
